Tuesday, December 29, 2009

After Christmas

I complain a lot about Mike's job not paying the greatest, but I do have to admit his benefits mostly make up for it. One huge perk is getting two weeks off at Christmas. Some of my favorite moments are lounging around in pjs for a few days after Christmas with Mike and watching the kids play with their new toys.


Gage tried really hard to put this lego toy together on his own, but some of the colors looked similar making it difficult. It took both of us three days to complete it. I don't think I ever want him to take it apart after all that work!


The boys love the Zhu Zhu pets and funhouse.



Tanner is wondering when Mike and I are ever going to put his beloved train track together.


Love these cars that don't transform but look like the cars on Transformers.



Ady got a new four wheeler for Christmas that Tanner had to try out. We brought up Gage's four wheeler he got for his 1st birthday, but it finally died and we couldn't get it to work. I don't know how happy Ady was to share.




Gage loving holding baby Iylah. He is begging for a baby sister. I told him if we have another baby he wouldn't get to choose. It could be another brother. I don't know how he feels about that.



My mom's attempt at getting a picture of all the grandkids together. We didn't quite get one Christmas Eve so we had to try a few days later.



Landen got a new Nintendo game that he is loving. Mario Party.



My parents love to come a few days after Christmas and check out all the new toys. Finally, the track is complete.




Gage is explaining how all the traps work on his Indiana Jones Lego set.






Tanner showing Grandma his workbench. He really hasn't built anything yet.



I think Tanner likes the Zhu Zhu pets the most out of all the boys.




Gage got a remote controlled helicopter. It is really hard to maneuver.



Grandpa is even having a hard time controlling the helicopter.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas!

We had to wake the kids up bright and early Christmas morning. Well, 7am is early for me. Mike's brother Matt wanted everyone over to Greg and Vickie's house by 9am sharp! They would be moving soon and this could possibly be their last Christmas in Utah for awhile. So, they had a packed filled day of visiting family. Gage and Landen woke up easily, but Tanner was a different story. He cried and whined pretty much the entire morning until he finally opened up his last present which happened to be a set of Thomas Trains. If only I knew that would satisfy him, I would have made him open it first! We will for sure let the kids sleep in next year!


Landen received more Transformers. The age to transform these little wonders says 5+ but honestly I think you need a doctorate to figure them out!


Pixos for Gage.



A work bench for Tanner.



Gage's big present this year was roughly a 1000 piece Indiana Jones Lego set. I wonder who will get stuck putting this fun toy together.




Rocky the Robot.





Aaah, finally the trains! One happy Tanner.




Mike surprised me with some Dansko shoes. A lot of nurses wear them because they form to your feet and are very comfortable. Unfortunately I kinda knew about this gift because I saw the email from Nordstrom confirming shipment. Oh well, he tried.




I surprised Mike with an email confirming his registration for the Ogden Marathon. Not the best gift on my part considering he was going to enter himself. Money is tight these days. Sorry babe!



We arrived at Mike's parents house right at 9am and of course were the only ones there. It didn't take long until the commotion of many grandkids opening presents started.




Gage received some golf clubs and Landen got these awesome cars that were small like hot wheels cars with a picture of a transformer on them. No transforming required!






Thomas Train Track. Perfect!






My in-laws are kinda hard to buy for simply because they just go buy things themselves. We went in together and bought Greg an i pod shuffle because supposedly he is going to take up running.



I was really excited to give Vickie her gift because I knew she was going to love it and I think she did! It's a desk calendar with pictures of all of her grandkids. I think she will be getting this every year.

We spent the rest of the day relaxing and letting the kids play with their toys. I was supposed to work a six hour shift tonight but was canceled. Yeah!


We had a great time and are so blessed to be able to share this day with our wonderful families.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Whiting Family Christmas Party

With all of Mike's cousins getting married and having kids, the Whiting family parties have started to have to be held at a church. I am loving this because my kids have room to roam and I don't have to worry about them breaking anything.

We always get together during the afternoon of Christmas Eve. We had pizza and chips which Landen got his hands on. I really shouldn't have let him eat the chips since this is when he is most at risk for bleeding, but he kept sneaking some when I wasn't looking. I could tell Landen was feeling a lot better. He was up playing with his cousins. After those first few horrible days, I never thought I would see him this active so soon.




Tanner always hangs out where the food is.



Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Gotta Love The Wii

Mike's parents have a Wii and no one ever really uses it. They said we could bring it over to our house during Christmas break. I think if we were ever to get a gaming system, it would be the Wii. I don't really like video games, but I feel like the kids are at least being somewhat active when they play the Wii. Here, Mike and the kids are playing Mario and Sonic Olympics. Tanner is so cute. He thinks he is playing when he holds the Wii controller.

I mostly wanted to post this because they have pictures of how skinny Landen has become. He pretty much has lived in his t-shirt and underwear because that is all he felt like being in. He feels so much better, but I can tell he lost a lot of weight from having his tonsils removed. Landen's face is sunken in and his legs seem extra skinny to me. I wish I would have done a before and after weight. Losing a few pounds on his already little body is a lot. He is drinking better now, but hopefully he will feel like eating more soon.






These boys are in it to win it!

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Hall Christmas Party

The Hall Christmas party is quite different from the Zampedri Christmas party which makes both parties fun and entertaining. Mike and Landen stayed home because Landen was still recovering from getting his tonsils out a few days earlier. Landen was definitely feeling better, but I didn't want him to over do it.

The party started at 4pm and lasted until 8pm. It didn't feel that long. The kids had a great time playing, hitting a pinata, eating yummy food, and playing the gift exchange game. My grandparents even busted out the slides to go down memory lane. It was so fun to see my mom as a little girl.


Thank heavens my grandparents have a bucket full of miscellaneous toys. It kept the younger kids entertained for quite awhile.


Here's Kade and Tanner waiting for their turn to hit the pinata. Kade was sitting a little to close to Tanner and invading his personal space. Tanner took it upon himself to hit Kade to get him to move. They were still buddies afterwards.



Tanner is proudly showing some of the candy he found. He made out pretty well.



The gift exchange game can go on for quite some time with over 30 people playing. My dad kept calling out the next number so that person would be ready. He hates it when everyone is shouting, "Who's number 9?" and of course number 9 is oblivious. My dad kept the game moving.




My dad ooohd and aaahd at what everyone got.




My grandparents were treated to an itouch.


Overall the party was a success. I always have so much fun visiting with my cousins and seeing all of their kids. I wish we were able to get together more often, but this family is huge!

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Bye Bye Tonsils

Landen got his tonsils out Wednesday and it has certainly been a rough couple of days. Everyone said getting their tonsils out when they are young is easier than when they are older. Well, I would hate to see anyone get them out when they are older because this has been awful. I really hope this surgery turns out to be worth it because I don't think I could put Landen through something like this again if it is somewhat "elective" like removing ones tonsils. My heart really goes out to parents whose children have major surgeries or illnesses. It is hard as a parent to watch your child be miserable.

We chose to have his tonsils removed at the new PCMC extension at Riverton Hospital because we could get in before the end of the year. The doctors, anesthesiologists and nurses are the same as the main PCMC so I didn't see it as being a problem until realizing the fact that if there are complications then the patient would have to take an ambulance to PCMC in Salt Lake because they don't have an overnight pediatric unit at Riverton. Read on because unfortunately this was mentioned with Landen.

We tried hard to prep Landen for the surgery, but unfortunately Landen only saw all the perks that come with getting his tonsils out. Leading up to the day, people would ask Landen about it and give him lots of fun attention. We went shopping the night before and I spent a lot of money on popsicles, pudding, and any liquid Landen even remotely thought he would drink. Dehydration is a common complication with kids when they get their tonsils removed.


We got there early in the morning. The nice thing about going to a new hospital is it wasn't very busy and we got lots of attention. Landen was able to decorate an ornament and the child life specialist spent some time with him. He was able to color a medical doll and play with medical equipment.

The anesthesiologist met with us and asked us if we thought Landen would need a dose of Versed before going into surgery. Versed makes the children relax and forget what happens before surgery so they don't get so anxious when taken away from their parents. Tanner got a dose before his tubes were placed which was good, however it makes coming out of the anesthesia even worse than it already is. They are so cranky and there is nothing you can do except wait for the medicine to wear off. Tanner was pretty terrible.

We decided Landen wouldn't need it, but when the time came for Landen to walk with the anesthesiologist he said he wasn't going. Thankfully, the nice child life specialist stepped in and walked with them to the OR.

The surgery was short and the doctor said everything went well. I was able to go back into the PACU to be there when Landen woke up. Well, as I walked into the room I realized he was already awake. He was crying. I should actually say he was freaking out. Landen's nose was all bloody and he looked like crap. I didn't quite expect him to look that bad. Landen kept complaining about the IV in his hand and I tried to distract him. I brought his blanket and he of course didn't want it. He wanted his stuffed animal that he had brought that was back in the waiting room with Mike. They only allow one parent back in PACU.

Landen kept thrashing about and I found myself not knowing what to do. It was really weird to be on the other side of things. I am used to being the nurse, giving the meds, and trying to console a family and pt. Now I didn't have a clue as to how to calm Landen. I was glad we didn't give him Versed. Who knew how he would be with that on board. The nurse asked if I thought he was in pain. I said no and that I thought his IV was just bugging him. A few minutes later he kept crying and wouldn't calm down so the nurse asked if she could get him some morphine. I quickly agreed. He settled down a little but he just kept groaning and seemed so uncomfortable. We couldn't get him to drink much but were able to get some Lortab down him so it would have time to start working after the morphine wore off.

Hospitals only like to keep patients in PACU the shortest time possible. Their airways need to be secure and pain needs to be under control. Hopefully they are able to be awake and drink a little. Usually the time spent in PACU is around 30 minutes and they charge by the minute. It is very expensive. We spent over an hour in PACU. Landen threw up bloody emesis and he was given Zofran. I think his stomach had been upset the whole the time and that was why he was groaning. We just couldn't get Landen to communicate this to us. We were finally moved out of PACU into a postop room where Landen would finish recovering and then go home.

Landen started complaining about his IV again and the new nurse was like, "Oh, we can take it out. He only needed it for the Zofran and since he just got it, we should be fine." I almost said to leave it in because he hadn't kept any fluids down, but I kept my mouth shut. I wasn't the nurse. But I soon learn my lesson to speak up for my child next time. She quickly took out his IV and Landen was happy for the moment and able to get some rest.

Landen was either sleeping or throwing up and he really hadn't drank anything to throw up. We were there forever! Usually you spend roughly an hour in post op and then are sent home. We were going on over 3 hours. The nurse didn't quite know what to do. There was talk of restarting an IV (Landen would freak out) and giving him a fluid bolus to perk him up and maybe flush out some of the meds from the surgery that were making him sick. If that didn't work, it would mean an ambulance ride to PCMC.

While Landen wasn't doing so hot, neither was I. I have never truly had a migraine, but now I can say I have. I worked Monday night and stayed awake most of the day Tuesday rather than going to bed like I normally do. We woke up early Wednesday for the surgery and I think my lack of sleep presented itself in the worst headache I have ever experienced. I threw up twice in a garbage can while we were in the postop room. The nurse got me some Tylenol and coke. At one point, I had a jacket over my head to block out any light. My good friend Heidi offered to drive all the way down to Riverton to come and get me. I was so close to saying yes because who knew how much longer we would be here. I just couldn't bring myself to leave Landen.

Finally, Landen was able to hold down an ounce for like 5 minutes and the nurse quickly discharged us. I don't think she knew what to do with us. We got into the car and Landen threw up. Mike asked if we should go back in, but I felt so crappy that I said no. I knew they couldn't do anything for Landen anyway. We could take him back to the hospital that night if he wasn't doing any better.

These past few nights, Landen has slept in bed with me. He tosses and turns and groans constantly throughout the night. The first night, I made him take Lortab pretty frequently. I would also make him take sips of water, but he just kept throwing up. Thursday night I called the on call ENT to see if he could give me something other than Lortab for pain because taking it on an empty stomach was probably what was making him sick. He said he couldn't call in a narcotic over the phone which I totally forgot about. He suggested just giving Landen Tylenol instead. I'm not a big fan of Tylenol. I really didn't think it would help a great deal in controlling Landen's pain, but there was nothing I could do.

By Friday, I felt like Landen was getting dehydrated and things just weren't getting any better. I called the doctor's office and they prescribed Zofran in a tablet that you place on one's tongue to dissolve. Landen had a tough time understanding how to do this but eventually that small pill dissolved.

Today, he is drinking more and I feel like we may have turned a corner. Unfortunately all he wants to drink is Creme Soda but I will take whatever I can get. This has been such a rough couple of days, hopefully Landen will continue to improve. He looks so skinny and sickly. I really hope he gets his appetite back soon.

Monday, December 7, 2009

Merrill Christmas Card

I had visions of doing something a little more for our Christmas cards, but I left it to the last minute. So, I had Cami take some pictures of us in front of our parent's fireplace. Here is what will be featured on our card this year!


Sunday, December 6, 2009

Zampedri Christmas Party

Today we had our annual Zampedri Christmas Party at El Monte's Clubhouse. I joked that this Christmas Party is like a drive thru experience. We ate, saw Santa, opened presents, cleaned up and were all packed in the car ready to go at exactly 1 hour and 15 minutes from the time we pulled in the parking lot. You would have to know the Zampedris to understand why this occurs. We were still able to have yummy breaksfast food and visit with the family. We have such a big, close family and I hope we are able to get together like this for many more years.


Tanner seemed excited about Santa at first.


Then he wasn't really into him when it came down to actually sitting on his lap.



Gage had a huge list of items on his Christmas list. He is starting to realize that this Santa and others found in malls aren't the real Santa. Gage can tell his beard is fake, etc. Right now I am going with the story that these are Santa's helpers because Santa is busy with Christmas preparations. I don't think Gage will be believing in Santa for too many more years which makes me sad.



Landen was a little shy but told Santa what he wanted for Christmas with some encouragement from me.





Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Landen goes to the ENT

Today I took Landen to see the ENT to check out his tonsils. I have to admit I was nervous about Landen possibly getting his tonsils out. However, all I keep hearing is how easy it is to get them out when they are young.

We met with Dr. Grimmer who is the ENT at PCMC that placed Tanner's tubes. He took a look at Landen tonsils and said that they were pretty big. I told him that Landen snored and was tired all the time so I didn't feel like he was getting good sleep, but I didn't think he had sleep apnea. I didn't want this to be the only reason for getting his tonsils out if it wasn't absolute necessary. Dr. Grimmer asked about his weight gain for the previous year. When I told him he had only gained a pound, he was pretty concerned. He said that when kids are tired and have big tonsils it can make them lose their appetite and food doesn't taste as good. He also asked about Landen's behavior. We all know about Landen's outbursts and how he is my most difficult child behavior wise. He said kids are prone to tantrums later in the day if they are tired and aren't getting good sleep at night. Dr. Grimmer said that usually behavior improves after tonsils are removed.

With all this information, Mike and I felt it would be in Landen's best interest to get his tonsils out. We have already met our deductible so I wanted to see if we could get his tonsils out before the end of the year. They were able to schedule Landen for surgery on December 16th at the new Primary Children's extension in the Riverton Hospital. Recovery time is roughly 2 weeks so I am a little nervous about how he will be feeling for Christmas, but this way he won't miss too much school.